Is it okay to date someone 3 years older than you?

No, unless the love you speak of includes sexual activities and the female's age is below the age of consent. No one not even you can control who they fall in love with. If you trully love someone then it is right. No one not even you can control who they fall in love with. If you trully love someone then it is right. No one not even you can control who they fall in love with. If you trully love someone then it is right.