How did patriarchy and capitalism contribute to gender inequality?

Well if men are expected to live up to this patriarchal figure as well as be the provider for their families, then the pedestal we place men on is simply too high, making it difficult for any man to meet any woman's expectations of him. This results in a society where all men are expected to be great but simply aren't and then they just get low self esteem. Meanwhile, all women have to do is cook dinner, clean the house, and put the kids to bed and then they have no reason to feel like they are worthless. It really isn't fair at all.