How do you ask a friend if he is gay when you are gay?

you just come out and ask him and maybee he'll understand

better answer: from someone who has done this alot of time, try this; talk about somelse who is gay to see their opintion on the matter, then if they are cool to talk (friendly ) about the person , then you slip it into the conversation that you are gay too and that it is gentic. that is always the key to me is to tell your friend or family that it is gentic( which ALL research points to!) and that ( if your religious) that it is god's plan for you. it worked for me alot of times esp. with my family.

anouther thing that helps is to be a little baked or drunk it helps ppl to be more open,