What do lesbians look for in a girl?

Look for a girl that is not painfully shy: extreme shyness sometimes is a sign of insecurity problems. You do not need to become the guy that she leans on (and leans on, and leans on . . .)

Look for someone with your own likes and tastes. If you are a rocker and she thinks that classical is the own 'real' music, then trouble will follow.

Look for someone with your own religious beliefs.

Find someone who will stand by you and back you up (then you do the same for her).