How do you know if your gay or just real sexual?

Your gay when you kiss a man or have any relationship with unless its a freind or a relitive. Im gay & im proud of it.

No, not really!

I'm gay and I have close relationships with straight men who are definitely NOT interested in me sexually.

Certainly if you're having romantic fantasies about finding a nice guy and settling down with him for a life of domestic bliss, you're gay.

To me, it's about more than sexual attraction. If you are capable of falling in love with a man, you are at least bisexual. IF you're in it just for the sex and you like sucking a bit of dick, then you're just a horny bugger.