Your wife is always upset and does not trust you?

* You have either given her reason to feel this way or she feels guilty about something she has done (for example: paying for items on her Charge Card and keeping it from you; to a myriad of things.) You are a wise man to notice the change in your wife. If she is in her 40's plus, she could well be going into perimenopause or even be in menopause (ceasing of menstrual periods) and hormones can cause the woman to become depressed; sad; crying for no reason or being extremely touchy and moody. It is best to take the time out to sit down with your wife (calmly) and tell her you have seen a change in her and don't understand why she thinks you don't trust her. Communication in a relationship is even more important than a sexual relationship.