You dont know if your a virgin. it kind of went in but wasnt proper?

Ask yourself this. Did he penetrate you with his penis ? Did you bleed ? If so then you are not a virgin. It is difficult to tell, I know, by what you ask but if he didn't actually get it in properly for whatever reason then you may still be a virgin. Can you see if your membrane is still there ? if it is then you are still a virgin.