What do you say to your husband when he tells you it is your fought that he got chatting to another woman?

no matter of foght or fault of a woman excuse a man s cheating or chatting to another woman if the wife has made a mistake or not is not the issue the important thing is that the husband wanted to cheat anywaw and was looking for an excuse otherwise if he loved her he would talk to her like couples do when they have different opinions or argue and end up compromising to keep their marriage working if everytime they have an argue one of them or both are cheating is not a marriage but an open relationship where each of them is allowed to see other persons even being together