Should a married man say I love you to his friend's mourning wife?

* No, the man should keep his feelings to himself while the widow is in mourning. He could be there as a friend and give her time to adjust to living life alone. When he feels that she has gotten over her grief and is dealing with her new way of life then he could ask her out on a date and if she accepts, date a few times and that is the time he should tell her how he feels.