Is sex before the sanctity of marriage ok?

Ignore the answer below, it is ultimately up to you to decide weather or not it's OK. In my opinion, it's no big deal, and if both partners are in agreement, you shouldn't feel bad about it.

AnswerNo, it is NOT OK - how would you feel if your husband or wife said "Hey hon, you are like the ... I don't even know maybe 20th guy/girl I've had sex with ... maybe even more than that!" You wouldn't feel to special now would ya?