Is it wrong for a 14 year old and 16 year old to be together?

Nahhh, not really. If you are in 9th grade its okay. Just not in 8th grade or something. If you like him a lot, them you shouldn't worry about it. :) As friends it's ok. As boyfriend and girlfriend, I agree with the above answer and say no. Too young, sorry. When one of you is 18 (a legal adult) the other one will be 16 (still a minor). Stay friends. Be patient, age difference means more when you are young. My wife is 4 years older than I am.