Will a guy avoid you if he is falling for you?

Yes he will. Woman do this too. Sometimes, it is sort of embarssing to have a strong attraction when you don't know how to handle it. It seems easier to avoid the person so you don't make a fool of yourself. I have done this. I can talk to anyone, but if I am really attracted to a man, I want to hide. I just feel I don't want the person to know incase he rejects me, even if he is showing clear signs of intrest. It is also hard for me to talk to them and get to know them. I appear rude and maybe cold, but in fact I really like the person. This is a very good question and I'm glad you asked it. As a matter of fact, I used to like a guy that I thought really liked me back. Then all of a sudden he started avoiding me, I had no idea what was going on and being as shy as i am, didn't confront him about it until a lot later. It turned out that he did like me and the whole thing was a big misunderstanding about what some of my friends had said to him. He was just feeling that i didn't feel the same way about him. Sometimes (depending on the guy) a guy will become more self conscious around you since he started developing stronger feelings. Maybe he feels that you don't feel the same way about him and is afraid that if you suspect anything you may give him the brush off. guys have a huge fear of rejection too. If you were already quite close to this guy, (like you guys would talk and stuff and hang out), and he just started avoiding you I would talk to him about it. Perhaps say, "Hey has something been bothering you lately? It seems like you don't' really wanna hang out with me." if he says that everything's fine and dandy, maybe offer to get together and make it like old times. You never know, maybe someone said something and there's been a misunderstanding, you never know, just make sure you go about this in a mature manner. Whatever you do, if you and this guy were close before he started avoiding you do NOT avoid him back. Just ask yourself, how badly do you want him as a friend? Don't walk away from your friends just because you feel like you're unwanted because of his anti-social behavior. And also, he may be going through a tough time and doesn't feel as socialable as normal, let him know that your there for him so he knows that you are a real friend and give him space if he needs it. The other scenario is that you two were never friends and you only chatted a few times and now you guys don't talk. Well maybe he was never really that interested, but if you are try and make the effort. When you see him ask how is day was, if anything's new, stuff like that. If still he doesn't seek you out to talk to he's probably not worth it. Continue the occasional "hey how's it goin" stuff but don't' worry about anything serious happening in the future. People who are interested will seek you out to be with you especially after you've shown interest yourself.