What do you do when you feel your wife has paranoid thoughts in which she states you threatened her and your children and keeps reporting this to the police as a threat?

* You will firstly have to sit back and try to remember when stressed if you have ever threatened her and the children by saying 'you are leaving them because you've had enough.' Every marriage has problems and people can lose their temper. If you have not cheated, been verbal or physically abusive to your wife and try to get along then you have a clear conscience and she is paranoid for some reason. If the police have found your wife's accusations towards you false (and obviously they have) then the next step is to speak with her doctor and let him know what is going on. You wife could have a medical condition creating her paranoid thoughts or hormonal problems. Go through your family doctor (without telling your wife) and see what your doctor can do about this. If you get no help then you can temporarily separate taking the children with you until she is willing to seek professional help.