I have a crush on my best friend whos male and he says he wont go out with me because he's not ready for a girlfriend but he wants to have sex with me is he just bullshitting with me or is there more?

He wants to sleep with you, but not commit to you. You can decide if that's b.s. or not, but I would say he can't have his cake and eat it too. Also, he doesn't seem like a very good best friend.

He wants a friend with benefits but not commit to a relationship. I agree with the person above he is not a very good friend. I think I would find a new friend. He sounds more a "user."