I got my stripe suspended for insubordination meaning I have 2 stripes now but if i mess up at all for 6 months the suspended one gets taken Im due to get a 3rd stripe do i get it after the 6?

Typically, if you have a suspended stripe due to insubordination, you would need to demonstrate good behavior and adherence to regulations for the entire six-month period before the suspended stripe can be reinstated. If you are due for a third stripe, it may depend on the specific policies of your organization. You should check with your superior or the governing body regarding their rules on promotions and reinstatement of stripes in your situation.