How do you makeout without using tongue?

Just keep kissing but if it was me I would let him or her kn I don't wanna tongue kiss before we start if u js kinda leave into it without noticing and him or her put tongue in stop and asked them not to. But to be honest if u don't feel comfortable then don't if it's ur first time making out I definitely wouldn't tongue kiss bc even though u guys kissed. It not really js a simple kiss it's more than tht it's kinda going further in ur relationship and it's uncomfortable to me for ur first time making out and u might be nervous to js have someone shove or stick their tongue in ur mouth so I would make it clear if ur about to or if u already r and they js stick in tongue then stop and ask them not to.