How do you get over a seven year relationship?

Time heals all wounds. This is always a rough time in any persons life - the hurt feelings will eventually subside. Important thing is to keep going forward with your life ... to stay in a depressed condition could be bad for your own personal health. Get on with life ... go do something for yourself that you have been putting off doing for many years ... have fun ... don't let yourself go into 'rebound mode' and get involved in another relationship right away ... give it a few years ... you need to cleanse your heart and soul first.