Are there any other grown up adoptees out there who feel they were adopted by a bad family?

Yes, I am here. There are probably a lot of us who were adopted by bad families because often there is money exchanged. I lived in a household where there were two alcoholics available to abuse me mentally and physically as I was growing up. These people only got a child because they had money that was made by illegal gambling in the form of a 'bookie'. I'm not saying that I'm against the part of making illegal money, but what I am against was all the drinking and abusive behaviour. At this time in my life I am still against adoption because I don't think that anyone is able to treat a child like it's their own and if they think they can, they are lying to themselves. I still see too many cases where kids are abused by someone who is not their parent and sometimes it's a step parent, sometimes it's a forster parent, and sometimes it's an adoptive parent. The worst kind of abuse comes from an adoptive parent because everyone around you assumes that you would not be with this family unless they were decent and yet, here you are..