When the hymn breaks does it always bleed or can it break and not bleed at all?

it is possible that you can break the hymen without bleeding , although it is very likely it will bleed , i am a virgin but i masturbate and my boyfriend really wants us to have sex , but i have been putting it off because i have been scared about how sore you here it is , but having only recently broke my hymen (popping my cherry) it is not as sore as people say , only uncomfortable