When does edward find out he loves Bella?

this is the easy way too put it:

To whomever said Edward raped Bella, how about you pick up a book. They got married after she begged for it. BEGGED!

he loves her uncoditionally because he marries her and has a daughter named Renesmee and she is beautiful (in my head) and Bella then becomes a vampire because Edward puts his venom in Bella's heart no because she had "it" with him stupid...

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Not much, considering the abuse he puts her through. The "unintentional, painful steps" could have easily been avoided or dealt with far better. Edward is a selfish jerk. :/

He loves her completely and absolutely. She completes him and anything he "put her through" was unintentional. Those painful steps were necessary for her to eventually become a vampire, to become his equal. Sometimes life hurts ... especially if you're clumsy and in love with a vampire.