In order to help children feel they have some personal power over their world it is important to offer them choices and say to them as seldom as possible.?

Offering children choices empowers them by allowing them to make decisions and take ownership of their actions, fostering a sense of autonomy. When adults limit their verbal directives, they encourage children to explore and express themselves, enhancing their confidence and problem-solving skills. This balance of choice and minimal instruction can help create a supportive environment where children feel more in control of their experiences.