I am trying to find my father can someone help me All the websites want money and I am not even sure if it's the correct person?

If you were adopted then i would suggest to go to the froster care facility but if your not and your father left then you may want to ask your mother or relative may think may know who they are or go out of your way to hire a private investgator. it's going to be really hard and I'm sorry to hear about your situation.