If you have a restraining order against someone and they contact your husband is that violating the order?

Yes, if you have a restraining order against someone and they contact your husband, it could be considered a violation of the order, depending on the specific terms outlined in the restraining order. Many restraining orders prohibit any form of contact with the protected party and their family members. It's important to document the incident and consult law enforcement or legal counsel to address the violation properly.