It Could Be.........Looks like to me she doesn't think you are playing the "chase" game well enough.
It would seem that she has an interest in you, but that you don't return the right signals. At the start of the relationship, there is a certain amount of flirting and waiting the goes on and the most you can do is play along. There are the fatal mistakes the one makes, male or female, the would seem too "pushy" to the other, and most become aprehensive in continuing the flirting. (that moment when the person seems disinterested but are in fact waiting to see your next move) You, then, take this as a rejection, when all the "chic" is doing is waiting for the right signals that tell her its OK to continue her own persuit. Her talking to your cousin about you is an indirect way of her trying to get her own message across to you because she possibly feels you aren't getting her signals. In turn, you may want to just jump her, but your signals aren't being interpreted correctly.
I would suggest that you try to put it all on the table, and quit with the flirting all together. If you are truly interested in her, and she seems to reciprocate, then you can't go wrong. But, be prepared for any answer, good or bad.
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