How do you tell your husband he's abusive?

For over a year and 1/2 I told mine that he was killing my feelings for him. It did not affect him AT ALL. In fact, the abuse escalated.

You can "TRY" to tell them but ultimately it doesn't matter to them. He doesn't see you as a person with real emotions or feelings or needs.

Just like the eve, when I would let my ex boyfriend know that I was starting to have second thoughts or needed a break from the relationship...the abuse become worse to a point of violence from him and his family.

Confronting an abuser does no good, because they think they are not At Fault.

God Bless

Abusers treat other people - especially their nearest and dearest - as objects, mere instruments of gratification. They are therefore shocked and indignantly enraged when they are criticized for their conduct.