Why is your abusive partner mad that you bought new furniture with your own money when you don't live together and you are very happy about it but he tries to ruin that?

He is obviously jealous that you are happy about something that doesn't involve him! Why are you even with this guy? Why can't you be a strong woman and break it off with him? Even if you love him, it is not worth the physical and emtional pain! I was with an abusive guy and stayed with him for a year! It was the worst time in my life, but I thought I loved him so I never broke it off! Two years later, I am as happy as ever! BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM!

AnswerBecause most abusive people are also controling people. Since he coludn't and can't control whatyou do with your money he has a problem. But so he can get mad and stay mad cause that is your money and you can spend it as you please. So don't let him ruin that for you cause you deserve it and as long as your satisfied with it that's all that matters.