I don't think it means you are a bad person at all. My parents divorced when I was 13, and I remember being relieved when they told me. I had been expecting it for a long time. When I was younger, I thought that it was my fault, that I should be doing something to stop it, that it was because my brother and sister and I were not being good, but we really had nothing to do with it.
Do you feel anything like relief, or something else? If you have no feelings at all, it might be because it hasn't sunk in. Later you might feel angry or resentful or a mix of things. It is okay to talk to someone about it.
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