Can she get more child support if you are a deployed soldier and already paying more than what was ordered?

Not likely, unless there is some extraordinary circumstance, such as a child who is severely disabled. She can ask for an additional payment for past-due support.

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I assume you are paying based on your income in the private sector, and you are now earning less, but she is requesting an increase based on what your potential increase in income would have been, had you not been deployed?

You need to immediately provide a Power of Attorney to someone to represent your interest in a modification hearing to get your support lowered. In only two states can you get a retroactive modification, Missouri being one of them, for deployed military, so you could be facing charges upon release if you are not keeping up your payments.

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