As men get older do they think of gay sex more?

The answer should be no. Gay men think of gay sex, straight men think of straight sex as they get older. However, for various reasons through the years, gay men have married women when they were younger. Sometimes they didn't know they were gay. Sometimes they knew but hoped that by marrying, it would go away. Sometimes they knew but felt forced to marry by society, by their families, by expectations. As they get older, these gay men in straight marriages find that they get tired of living a lie. They don't always tell their wives about this, unfortunately, but start thinking about gay sex more. Sometimes they go out and have gay sex. And because they've never had to worry about condoms in their marriage, they may not bother with them in the new gay world. And some get diseases (including HIV) and bring them home to the wife. So if you are thinking more of gay sex as you are getting older, think about being honest with your wife, and ALWAYS use a condom.