An emotional affair (no sexual contact, but just talking) is very risky and can lead to a sexual affair. Cheating is wrong and you need to sit down with your wife and discuss your marriage problems without bickering or arguing as to who is right or who is wrong and try to save the marriage. If you find this too challenging then see a marriage counselor. You took vows in your marriage and you should be able to sit down and discuss problems in your marriage with your wife and not some other woman. Be honest and face how you really feel and realize you are looking for excitement and a possible sexual relationship. You may find this entertaining now, but many couples who have had this problem end up losing everything family-wise and the love and respect of the wife they may find out they truly love and have lost her for good not to mention any children's respect for their father.
