How do you get your boyfriends trust back after you lied to him?

If your boyfriend is like that for one thing... he is not a good boyfriend (most of the time). Ask him what he feels and just don't bring that up. Just try. Now, this varries depending on the situation... well, I'm sorry if this didn't help. :S

It takes time to regain trust. It may help to explain why you lied, apologize and be truthful in the future. If he truley means that that there is "no way to forgive", then you should move to end the relationship.

First of all, don't ever lie to him again. And I don't mean don't get caught, I mean don't do it at all no matter how tempting it is or how small a thing.

If he honestly refuses to ever trust you again, it's time to break it off. If he hasn't broken it off yet that tells me he wants to give you another chance; don't waste it! Try to understand how he feels, maybe hurt, betrayed, or like he isn't worth your honesty?

Lots of talking helps. Tell him it's ok to be angry (for a while), and let him tell you how hurt he is. I don't know how serious you are with him but seeing a counselor, even just by yourself, can help you to learn why you lied and how you can prevent it in the future. That can save a future relationship if not this one.

He may eventually forgive you, but don't expect him to forget what happened.

Good luck to both of you.

answer: to whomever posted the first answer, you are wrong. you are gravely mistaken. The person who LIED is the one with the fault in the relationship. if he doesn't forgive you, that is it. you can't make him trust you (short of saving his life). so unless you can save him from some form of life threatening disaster, move on. and stop lying to your partners and you won't have to ask such silly questions

: whoever posted thelast one saying the first one was wrong is a bit harsh. the person who posted this question asked for our opinions not for people to argue with others. The person who lied does have a fault yes but maybe you should try to talk to him ask if there is anything you can do to get him to trust you again.If you stay by him through anything it may help and try not to lie again. Many things can be tempting but are they worth losing him?