What is it that a woman uses only once in her lifetime while than man uses 3 to 5 times a day?

The riddle came from Arabic and then was translated into English. Answer is Maqaabir meaning graves, meem Qaaf alif baa raa, women only visit the graveyard once when they pass away and men are permitted to go three time intervals of the day. The kafan is white brighter than day, and grave darker than night. Eating a dead body is haraam To drink the rain water that has gathered after passing over a grave is halaal, it's plural Quboor is mentioned five times.