How do you know if a guy cares?

You shouldn't have to test him. His every day attitude towards you should tell whether they care about you or not. CARING: He will phone when he says he will. Keep dates when he asks you out. May buy you the odd little gift. Puts up with some of your friends he may not like all that much. Is polite and kind to you as well as loyal. Enjoys being around you. You laugh a lot together and have your own little secrets between you. You share your hopes and dreams together. NOT CARING: Doesn't phone you often. Doesn't always keep dates when he's made one with you. Verbally or physically abuses you. Puts you down in front of your friends. You may not see him for days or even a couple of weeks at a time. He doesn't feel he needs to let you know why he hasn't been around.