Is a parallelogram a kite

No. A kite is a quadrilateral that has two pairs of adjacent equal sides (upper/lower).

In a parallelogram, the opposite sides are equal in length. A kite can become a parallelogram in the degenerate case of a rhombus, where the upper and lower sides are equal. This also applies to square kites.
No but they are both 4 sided quadrilaterals