Tell people you are not getting married?

Answer

You didn't explain yourself well. It's up to the bride to be to take care of this matter.

If you have already sent the invitations out and you have decided not to get married then don't falter and worry about it. Send out notes (or telephone) each person invited and simply say you have reconsidered and decided not to get married. If they press you for further information be polite and just say you would rather not discuss it as it has been a difficult decision.

If you have only informed people of a certain date while in conversation you can simply say the same thing as I said above. People don't need to know the details as I'm sure it's very hurtful to you already. A person with manners wouldn't ask you anyway and may only respond with 'I'm sorry it didn't work out.' End of discussion!

If you have had your wedding dress altered the shop may give you part of the money back and if not get it vacuumed sealed and use it when you do get married to that special person in your life. If your parents were paying for the wedding and have the church booked and a place for the reception then talk to them immediately. They may not be too happy about it, but the worst they will lose is their deposit. It's worth knowing you have made a mistake and not marry to save face and ruin the rest of your life.