Is there a live in martial arts school or monastery where they practice martial arts?

Yes! The Shaolin Temples actually have a program that includes room and board and a number of weeks of training. There are a numerous camps and programs offered by different schools throughout the world. Keep your eyes and ears open and you'll find them!

Not only the Shaolin Temple, but also the Wu Tang monastery [not Method man or ODB] on top of Mount Wu-Dang, they also offer boarding style kung fu training camps for foreign students if they are interested.