What do you do if you want your uncircumcised boyfriend husband or lover to get circumcised?

You ask him about it, but he might not want to do it.

I always believed that if you want circumcised guys, stick with circumcised guys.

Also, consider that circumcision is meant as a way for Jewish families to show their obedience to God. You should consider doing some research into the purpose and process of circumcision, as well as potential risks and benefits. Then consider whether you should make this request- it is comparable to a guy asking his girlfriend/lover/wife to get breast implants.