How can I stain red oak to achieve a finish that resembles white oak?

To stain red oak to achieve a finish resembling white oak, you can use a combination of light-colored wood stain and a pre-stain wood conditioner. Apply the wood conditioner first to help the stain absorb evenly. Then, apply the light-colored wood stain in thin, even coats until you achieve the desired shade. Sand lightly between coats for a smooth finish.