How do you get a boy to pull you?

Step one in getting a boyfriend or a girlfriend is to get a friend -- find out what you both enjoy -- what classes you share, what movies you like, what your hobbies are, etc.

Once you know that you and the other person are friends, just ask if they'd like to take the relationship farther. One warning (especially for gay guys): some people freak out if a friend makes a pass at them, so you need to decide if you're willing to risk the friendship. Sometimes, having a friend is more important than having a lover!