How can a wife get rid of the other woman?

Short of murder (I don't highly recommend this LOL) there isn't much you can do because it's your husband's choice to see her, and it's his butt you should be kicking and not hers. He's a jerk and is non-caring about what he is putting you through and how you feel. Kick the slug right out that door! There are other men out there that would treat you far better and the way you should be treated. The harder we fight between the husband and the mistress the closer together it brings them.

I was married before to an abusive husband. I caught him cheating with two women at one time! Although they were not in the throws of sexual embrace and I caught them cozied up in a popular pub, nonetheless I caught them. I confronted him right there and then and when he said, "What the hell are you doing here, get home and iron" I am ashamed to say I lost it! I am 5'6" tall and 130 lbs., and I never knew I had the physical strength I did. I picked up that heavy round table he was sitting at with those two grinning idiots he had picked up and held it in the air and dumped every single glass and pitcher of beer on all of them! Even the bouncer of the pub said, "No way am I going to get in between that one!" I went home, locked the doors and refused to let him in. He had to move in with his mother (that should have told me a lot right there.) Although this wasn't my usual style of dealing with a problem I have to say, it sure felt good! Later, I filed for divorce. I've since met a wonderful man and we've been married 33 years.

Kick this guy as far as you can. Don't lower yourself by trying to get to the woman. That's what she wants! She wants you to retaliate so she can cunningly go whining to your husband and tell him how terrible you are to her. This only reinforces all his lies as to why he's left you.

NO MAN OR WOMAN IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR WHEN THEY CHEAT!

Good luck Marcy

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Wow I wish I did, but Im afraid the man I married might get mad and disappointed if I lay my hands on her, after all he has deep feelings for her and she is such a good Christian woman.