What is more bad being gay or being lesbian?

Being gay and lesbian are two different things and are often used to classify homosexuality in males and females, respectively. However, the term "gay" has become more and more gender neutral being used to describe both sexes increasingly frequently.

Asking if it is better to be gay or lesbian is almost the same as asking if it is better to be male or female. The similarity between the two groups of people is that being gay or lesbian is not a choice. They did not chose their sexual orientation and have no control over the attractions.