Why wont my husband speak to me about the problems in our marriage?

He might feel that he can not talk to you. Have considered brining in a impartial party (ie counseling) You need to try to open the lines of communication in your relationship. If your husband is not talking to you, who is he talking to? Ask yourself that question. If you could come up with an answer compare yourself to the people that your husband are talking to. See if there are similarities that your husband can relate to and differences that may compell your husband to talk to others. Maybe your husband is not talking to anyone which means that he has alot of pinned up emotions about the relatonship, in that case I suggest tha you guys enter some couples counseling.