Do the first four commandments concern themselves more with god or with one another?

In short, they concern themselves more with one's relationship with God.

AnswerThe first four commandments are all about this god and his need for exclusive adoration, worship and homage. Remember that there were always thousands of gods worshipped at this time and throughout history to the present. The first four commandments command the way by which followers will pay homage to this god warning that no other gods will be worshipped, no one is to blame this god for anything that goes wrong and the final warning is to pay homage on a regular basis. They do not express a "relationship" with god any more than the laws in a Dictatorship describe a civilians relationship with their dictator. The first four commandments are the most important and define the rules of obedience. They are a command to worship this god only, by his rules, or else!