How do you stop fighting in a relationship?

Life is really much simpler than most people make it out to be. The big Word here is COMMUNICATION! All couples will have an argument off and on, but when it's constant something is wrong and that something is usually two people fighting for control in the relationship. You need to sit down with your boyfriend/husband and communicate. Ask him what bothers him about you and listen! You may not like what he has to say, but I'd advise you to listen because there could be character flaws in your personality that could be rectified. Then you tell him what irritates you about him and the same applies to him. We should be learning from each other in a relationship. Relationships are always going to have some bumpy patches, but, with good communication skills and brutal honesty the relationship can become healthy and a good one.