How do you find the perfect partner?

Ask yourself:

1) Is he willing to get tested for HIV and related STi's & STD's etc?

2) Does he respect when you say no? or your preference/s of using protection to feel safer etc?

3) Does he make you feel 100% comfortable, appreciated and desired, in spite of your physical hang-ups?

4) Is he in it for himself or is there give and take?

5) Does he appreciate that you have shared yourself with him or does he i.e. get up and go make a sandwich or watch tv soon after one or both of you have climaxed?

6) Do you feel comfortable enough to voice your likes and dislikes sexually to "spice it up"? i.e. mess around with Karma sutra moves for fun etc.

7) Do you feel you always need to take charge to receive pleasure from him?

8) Can you trust that he will not give a detailed report to his friends of your sexual relationship.

I have had the experience of being able to completely let go of everything around me. My focus 'zoned" in on him and what I am experiencing because I receive 100% of him in return.