How do you not say mean things or do mean things?

You say mean things and do mean things. I think you learned that when you were in preschool. Why are you asking??????? you could also learn some bad Words and learn Taikwando!!!!!

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Ignore what is said above, because that, I'm guessing isn't the answer to your question, right?

When trying to stop being rude, mean, horrible, arrogant, ignorant....etc, you have to try to follow a set of rules:

*Rule 1.

THINK BEFORE YOU TALK.

If you think before you speak, you will be able to control what you say, and make sure you don't say something horrible, or something to offend someone.

*Rule 2.

TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED.

If you treat others badly, think about how you would feel, if you were in that position. You are probably thinking now, I wouldn't care, but you probably would.

*Rule 3.

CONSIDER THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS.

Others may be more sensitive to things than you are, so, if you are going to tell someone your opinion, feelings, or just simply what you think, say it CRITICALLY.

Example:

INSTEAD OF SAYING: You're work is so bad, I could crap on it.

Say: Would you like some help?

or: Maybe you could improve this, this...etc.

Using this technique, you will let people down easier, and they won't be as offended as if you were to say it harshly.

Hope I helped!!Need anymore help, just ask :)

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