How do you know when your spouse does not love you?

A man in lust acts different to a man in love, and both act different to a man who feels neither emotion or passion. It is a hard question to answer but I guess the nearest I can get to an answer is - LUST is all about sexual attraction, but does not involve caring for you when you are less than a sexual groin magnet. So the next time you have the flu virus and own a bright red runny nose with monster cold sores- expect the "in Lust" man to do a runner until you recover. Lust without attraction kinda dies. LOVE is all about caring and may or may not involve sexual attraction any more depending on your age, health and number of years together. However this loving guy will be the first one to bring you some medicine and a hot cup of milk when you are ill. He may not necessarily always jump on your bones the moment your cold sore has disappeared- but he would rather die than be without you.....and deep down you know it. INDIFFERENCE is present in a man who may have sex with you because nothing better is around the corner, or may bring you some toast when you are ill in bed out of a sense of duty- but something instinctively tells you that both the sex and the caring lack a spark of reality and arn't quite what they should be. Put simply- you just know.