You need to stand back and take inventory of your own life. You should not be allowing any young man to disrespect you or harm you in any way. You need to get some self confidence in your life and become more independent. No man of any age likes a clingy young woman with a lack of confidence. You need to know you do not have to settle for second best so move on from your boyfriend and get out with friends and back into the dating circuit because there is someone special out there that would treat you much better.