You are asking how to write a Personal Reference, specific to the character of the person. Here are things to include in a business letter format, typed or very neatly written in pen:
Example Letter
On right side type or write
Number Street
City, State Zip Code
Today's full date and year
Skip TWO lines.
On Left side:
The person's name you are writing TO
Their Title
Number Street Suite Number
City, State Zip Code
Skip Two Lines.
Dear Mr. / Mrs. / Ms. Last Name Only,
My name is (your full name). I am writing on behalf of my nephew, (give person's full name here not in parentheses), my brother's son. I am proud to have known (here use nephew's first name only) for his entire life.
[Skip one line.]
When [nephew's first name] asked me to write a reference for him, I was thrilled. (Nephew's first name) is a bright student, hard worker, and eagerly takes on new tasks. He enjoys learning and is self-motivated. Last summer, he created his own lawn care business, with 35 regular customers. Many people commented about how punctual, responsible, and conscientious of a worker he was in his work. My nephew also recently showed great honesty when he spotted a bank deposit bag in a parking lot which contained $3,295.00. He immediately called the police and it was returned to the business owner.
[Skip one line]
As you can tell, I am very proud of my nephew. Even though he is still in high school, I think he will be an asset to an employer. If you have any other questions, you can call me at (give area code-exchange-number).
Skip at 3 lines.
Sincerely, [Or Sincerely Yours,]
Skip at least 4 lines, -- this is where you will sign your letter in INK.
Skip 2 lines
Type or print your name.
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