When women and men who are in love get married they should remember the vows they take. They are suppose to respect and honor each other and there is nothing in those vows that hints that cheating is acceptable. Married couples are suppose to go through life until 'death shall you part.' Most married women that find out their husbands are cheating are more than annoyed; they feel betrayed; they feel they have been made a fool of; they may be jealous of the other woman and most certainly they get down right angry! Most married women do not want to share their husbands with another woman. No, the mistress is not affected by dating or having a long affair with a married man and considers it almost a competition that she is much better than the wife and he will end up divorcing the wife and marrying her. Little does the mistress realize that there is an extreme low percentage that the married man will ever marry her. If he loved her he would ask his wife for a divorce.